Velvet Covered Steel - EP 162

In this episode, we're diving into a topic that doesn't get nearly enough attention—women in leadership. And joining me today is a powerhouse leader, CEO, and all-around badass, Amanda May. We’re tackling the real struggles women face in leadership, from balancing strength with grace to overcoming the outdated stereotypes that come with being a female boss. Whether you're a woman navigating your role in business or a leader looking to better support the women on your team, this episode will give you real, no-BS insights into what it takes to lead with confidence and authenticity.

We’ll break down the fine line between being assertive and being labeled as "too much," the power of leading with both warmth and strength, and why mentorship is one of the most underrated game changers in leadership. Amanda shares her personal journey—what she’s learned, the mistakes she’s made, and the lessons that have helped her grow into the leader she is today. Plus, we’ll talk about the role of strong male allies in elevating female leadership and how having the right support system can make all the difference.

If you’re a woman in business, you don’t have to compete with men—you can complement the team, stand in your power, and lead in a way that’s true to who you are. And if you’re leading a company, knowing how to create an environment where both men and women can thrive is key to long-term success. We’re getting into the mindset shifts, the practical strategies, and the leadership principles that actually work. This is a must-listen for anyone serious about building a stronger, more dynamic team.

Welcome to The Spinoso Podcast hosted by CEO, doctor, comic book geek, and car guy, Alex Spinoso. I help people and companies grow - especially in the medical business. While my experience and expertise is in scaling all types of medical businesses to 7, 8, 9-figures or more, I can be a mentor to anyone who wants to take ownership of their lives, become a better leader at home and at work, and overcome any obstacle that stands in their way.

(0:00) - Intro

(0:35) - Women in Leadership: Introduction and Context

(2:27) - Balancing Strength and Authenticity in Leadership

(4:45) - Examples of Velvet Covered Steel in Leadership

(14:21) - Mentorship and Overcoming Self-Imposed Barriers

(21:23) - Creating Commitment and Inspiring Team Members

(30:09) - Freedom of Expression and Professionalism

(37:25) - Balancing Individuality and Team Culture

(42:23) - Overcoming Past Trauma and Embracing Femininity

(45:56) - Final Thoughts

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